YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/GETTING FIXED UP SEXUALLY: THE L.O. V.E. TECHNIQUE

This is the Zisten, observe, verify, and emphasize technique. As you begin your super marital sex program, a key rule is never, but never, to respond to a feeling statement from your spouse without first reiterating that statement. Below are examples of the experiences of various [...]

Earlier in this chapter, I mentioned the idea of “sexual cybernetics,” of getting in touch with the natural flow of your marital and sexual system. You have made some tapes and started the process of system enhancement in Chapter One’s opportunity. Now try this next step toward super marital sex.

Reverse everything you can [...]